16:1 亞伯蘭的妻子撒萊不給他生兒女。撒萊有一個使女,名叫夏甲,是埃及人。
16:2 撒萊對亞伯蘭說:「耶和華使我不能生育。求你和我的使女同房,或者我可以因她得孩子(得孩子:原文是被建立)」。亞伯蘭聽從了撒萊的話。
16:3 於是亞伯蘭的妻子撒萊將使女埃及人夏甲給了丈夫為妾;那時亞伯蘭在迦南已經住了十年。
16:4 亞伯蘭與夏甲同房,夏甲就懷了孕;她見自己有孕,就小看她的主母。
16:5 撒萊對亞伯蘭說:「我因你受屈。我將我的使女放在你懷中,她見自己有了孕,就小看我。願耶和華在你我中間判斷。」
16:6 亞伯蘭對撒萊說:「使女在你手下,你可以隨意待她。」撒萊苦待她,她就從撒萊面前逃走了。
Now Sarai, Abram’s wife,
had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian slave named Hagar; 2 so she said
to Abram, “The Lord has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my slave; perhaps
I can build a family through her.”
Abram agreed to what Sarai said. 3 So after
Abram had been living in Canaan ten years, Sarai his wife took her Egyptian
slave Hagar and gave her to her husband to be his wife. 4 He slept with Hagar, and she
conceived.
When she knew she was pregnant, she began
to despise her mistress. 5 Then Sarai said to Abram, “You are responsible for
the wrong I am suffering. I put my slave in your arms, and now that she knows
she is pregnant, she despises me. May the Lord judge
between you and me.”
6 “Your slave is in your hands,” Abram said. “Do with her whatever you
think best.” Then Sarai mistreated Hagar; so she fled from her.
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在亞伯拉罕的家庭中,夏甲是個沒有地位的婢女,她的命運沒有主動權,受制於撒拉。然而撒拉自己不會生產,就讓夏甲成為妾,好為亞伯拉罕延續子嗣。殊不知夏甲懷孕之後,自以為身分提升了,看不起撒拉,導致撒拉反擊,夏甲受不了就逃走。
亞伯拉罕雖然是上帝所呼召的人,卻在家庭的治理上,讓然感覺是不及格!竟然沒有好好尋求上帝的心意,太太說什麼就做什麼,導致後來惹出家庭不和睦,他還是讓太太要怎樣就怎樣,沒有男人該有的魄力。
其實男人在家中要發揮上帝賦予男人的角色,也就是要做一個稱職的治理者,如此家庭才會和睦,才能榮耀上帝的名!